Well this happen to one of my friends. He told me that he got someone in mind and he don know whether he should carry on liking her. So I ask him why he hestiate he told me she just broke off with her bf and the bf is like cheating on her. What cheating on her is like making me boil I don understand why is there guys out there who don really cherish their own gfs. It like not everybody has fate like that. Fate don come easily but it goes like fragile glasses. Hai anyway so I told him yeah that good at lease you should be able to stand a chance. He told me no he is scare and somemore she don even know him well yet and also he is not bold enough to express out his feelings. So then I encourage him telling him hey don give up hope man just take step by step you can do it . Then he told me he tried hinting to her like asking questions. Indirectly it refers back to him of course he ask it in such a way that she never suspects anything. Then the answer he sort of gets is not very postive neither is it negative it like stuck in between so he don know whether he should carry on or not. Then he say he feel inferior because of all the past exp he got. Well then he sort of like me have a bad past so I told him hey man what past is past don let the past affect your future decisions. If the past is going to hinder and affect your future then it a wrong cuz past is mistakes meant to be learnt and do better in future. So whatever he goes through he should not take it and presume it will happen again in future. Whatever happens now then will affect the future so meaning present now is what of past happens. Then it up to one to choose again in now to make the future better.
Oh well I can't help him much because it up to him whether or not to listen to me,I however wish he can make it. His wish is to bring the gal to MT Faber to view the sights together with her. I sincerly wish him all the best hopefully he can made it.
Jimmy stop typing at 12:44 AM
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