You Are a Good Friend Because You're Supportive 
You are almost like a life coach for your best friends.
You give them help when they need it... but you also know when to give them a push.
People tend to rely on you for moral support and advice.
You've probably always been mature for your age, so this is a role that's you're comfortable with.
A friend like you is one of the rarest kinds.
You are both a good mentor and companion.
Your friends need you most when: They are confused or worried
You really can't be friends with: Someone who only wants to complain
Your friendship quote: "The only way to have a friend is to be one."
Well 3 papers done and 2 more to go, finally since october I been here and it seems like only a few days has passed now it May going June. I can't believe it man when time flies so fast. Anyway good luck to all who are going to have exams coming.
Friendship quote: The only way to have a friend is to be one.
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"Hey Who is this J & C in your company's name in myicicle?" -Nikki
"Eh......................................................." -Jimmy
In the year 1997 decmeber, there was this guy who is named J and there is this gal named C living in a town call CCK. One day J went to the library with his gang of friends and while browsing some books, he caught sign of a beautiful girl. His group of friends urged him to go know her but he is shy and holding back but with much persuadation he finally raise his courage to go up and chat with her. He said to her hi I am J may I know your name please ? I would like to be your friend. She was quite stun and abit rejective and feel uneasy. J never give up and keep on trying, she see him trying to hard finally give in and tell him her name is C and they even exchange contact numbers. They chatted on phone every day for 2 weeks, can tell that J like her alot even thought it is a short time. There was once when they was chatting on the phone, her father snatched the phone over and ask J who are you , why are you calling my daughter ? He was stun and out of desperation he accidently show some disrespect to her father. Her father impression was not very good with this guy and told her why she know such a jerk. Well that was a small drama however didn't affect the feelings between them. In the modern times handphone wasn't so popular as then, so they was using pager. One day he received a page from her, unknown to him because it was kept in a cupboard. After one hour later he check his pager and found out that she paged for him. He see it as an hour before got so worried hence decide to call back to her. He call her numerous time but couldn't find her starting to get more worried. He lost all thoughs he began to think maybe she wants to meet up hence he quickly changed and run all the way to the nearest shopping mall. He run so fast that there was a police patrol car nearby saw this, they got worried quickly drive the car to stop him. The police was asking him hey are you being chased by a hooligan or is there someone after your life ? J was stun like why would he ask such a question. Well during that time gang fights were quite common that why police patrol are on the rise to stop the fights. Upon seeing that sight they though he is being chased after by someone hence stop him. J replied to them no it wasn't what they think it is, well I am in a rush to meet someone that why run so fast. They was curious ask him who are you meeting ? He say a very important friend to him indeed. They ask for his I.D then left him.
After they left he carry on to the shopping mall to search for her, search for so long still can't find her. He begin to get more worried and then suddenly his pager rang. He saw her number, return call and told her what happened. Well her reactions is that J is silly and funny but all those actions for her so she feel quite touched. The year ended and the new year came , the year is 1998 January. J decided it time to ask her to be his girlfriend. So he braved all guts and ask her to be his stead. She agreed it came as a surpise to him and this is his first love. He feels so happy and so loved. On the 3rd day they went out together and that was the first time they hold hands together. Perhaps it fate the relationship was a short one after 5 days later she wanted a breakup. He was devesated and keep on asking why, she can't give him a reason. Hai J was so sad that news came as thunder bolts with all of the bolts being zapped into him. He lost himself and over that one year he live like a zombie. That year 1998 was his worse times, it also was the mark of his end. Luckly he didn't give up on himself, he lives on because he knows there are still alot of friends around him to care for him, his family behind him supporting him. All this kept him going the toughest of times sort of gone over for him, through this experience he found out that true love can be sweet but at the same time devesating if it is ended. After knowing tihs he decided to carry on his life helping others to acheive true happiness, he wants to let people know that true love is not easy to come, so should treasure what they have. Don abuse it and think it is presumeable yours. He don wish to see another poor soul like him and suffer like him hence he tried to help whoever is in help. Sometimes he get so emotional and ask himself is it really worth it to help others and yet it still don come out as what he has expected ? Things aren't alway as planned as it should be isn't it ? This is life, what you don expect alway come unexpectedly.
A friend of mine, got into a relationship and she is unhappy of the stuffs that his bf don't do for her. Let just say perhaps everyone's expectations are different, hers might require more higher standards. Her bf perhaps didn't really manage to reach her standards now is on the point of being eliminated. You know how hard is it for me to stand at the side looking at all this happening and yet I can't do anything about it? Someone will ask why are you so concern over them ? Why bother to help me maintain something which is not making out ? Keeping them together won't it be more suffering for both of them ? I do admit I can see the problems they have and they have really tried their best but yet it still don't seem to work out at lease from the girl's point of view. From the guy's point ? Seriously I don know and I really want to leave them as it is. Just when I though eveytime they make out and become stable, I though it time I can finally see them happy together. Something bad will happen again. Well perhaps fate brought them together at the wrong place ? at the wrong time? or at the wrong moment? But I can really tell and know that she love him alot, he knows that so is it he is using that point to abuse her? Seriously I never have actually discussed this with him before but his actions everything don seems to be able to tally what he should be doing. This make her dishearted, make her feel sad, make her depressed. A bf actions can mean alot of things to a gf, your every action, your every move or even your breath can cause an uproar with your gf. I don believe guys are really that dumb until they really don understand what their gf needs and wants. Seriously I do hope to see you happy and attain your happniness as what you wanted. If you really feel he can't provide you with the sense of security you looking for is it breaking up is the only way ? Think about how much love you have for him, think about everything you and him have done together. I don encourage giving up lightly but I also don encourage holding onto a meaningless relationship. How do you define meaningless you ask ? I can't possibly tell that depends on your standard. I saying it in general that is all.
So many things has happened, one best friend has relationship problems too, another close friend of mine is going to do somethng very bad. Seriously I am disappointed in one of my friend's actions, and the other I feel sorry for him. Disappointed and disgusted by it, you know who you are I don wish to spell your name out. The other I think you are also having a hard time, to maintain friendship and also your love. I know what has happened, I really do wish I possess something which I can make it all right. Hai anyway finally the cat is out of the bag, remember the earlier conversation. J & C well J would naturally stands for me that is very obvious, but then who is this C ? Never knowing that she stands an important place in my heart right before ? As for now perhaps not as strong as before maybe do miss abit. So who is she ? What is her name? Well this I would perfer to keep it inself me, however fai I think you know who is she right ? She is someone who I mention to you before you should have an idea. That it a pretty long entry this time round haha anyway I am preparing for my exams next week might be abit busy perhaps after exam will blog again. Oh ya I forgot to mention, hai it been so long I think I should have forgiven a wrong being done to me. The chinese has a saying 的饶人处切饶人 meaning being forgiveful. I know of this long ago but it was reminded to me through my temple. We must be forgiving to everyone who has done wrong to you. Remebering what wrong one has done to you is only making you being revengeful and unhappy. I think I can truely let go and also there is another saying very true 害人之心不可有，防人之心不可无。It means don't posses a heart to harm people and at the same time you cannot let your guard down even if you don have the intention to harm people , other people might have. Anyway I just wish I could see more happy people.
Tag:
To nikki: Sorry I didn't quite keep to my promise, but this is really bugging me I need to let it out. Hope you don mind remember to stay happy and don stress out for the coming exams.
To nic: Yeah finally thanks for coming in.
To seng: Please think about what we all have said.
To fai: I know it hard on you, but don forget you will alway have my support.
To crystal: I know the going is not easy, so if you need someone to talk to you can find me. Which I don wish to hear too much lah because that would means you have alot of problems. Remember to smile more often ya.
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Your Personality is Somewhat Rare (ISFP) 
Your personality type is caring, peaceful, artistic, and calm.
Only about 7% of all people have your personality, including 8% of all women and 6% of all men
You are Introverted, Sensing, Feeling, and Perceiving.
Hmm perhaps it make sense in a way. Feel free to try it. Anyway been quite busy with school assignments. Alot of work being piled up I guess that is the result of being a procrastinator. Haha more to come for next week and star gate is also a reason for slowing my progress and my dark eye bags arhhhh. Now at season 7 I think by next week perhaps can finish season 8.
Tag replies:
To April: Hey thanks for your advise and perhaps I didn't say clearly there is no one in mind to go after. Hehe thanks for your concern though. Take care and you too rememeber to keep a smile on your face.
To gui: Haha I no longer idol her already I guess.
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